“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Would you wait 90 days to have sex with a girl?

SamTheHobit

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Most chicks that fvck in the first few weeks are slvts... So in other words if a chick wants to wait then I have no problem.
 

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Yeah, just if I'm not head over heels with butterflies in my stomach, then I'm definitely not going to stick around for so long ;)
 

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Look up the iron rules of tomassi.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rubirosa

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ArcBound said:
Look up the iron rules of tomassi.
Hey bro,
I clicked on the link for that "Paul The King" and it was REALLY good (along with entertaining pictures). Thanks for the link.
 

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Sure, just as long as I'm not getting sloppy seconds and she's a quality girl. The good things you wait for. On the other hand how to be sure she's quality and not sloppy seconds?
 

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I might, but i'd be pursuing other girls at the same time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SamTheHobit said:
Most chicks that fvck in the first few weeks are slvts... So in other words if a chick wants to wait then I have no problem.
I completely disagree. I usually bang a chick by the fourth date. How soon a woman has sex has nothing to do with her 'slvt' status. If she's fvcking three guys at the same time and one of them is her husband, THEN you have a slvt on your hands.

A high level of attraction will cause a woman to sleep with you quicker. A low level of attraction will cause her to look in other places for sex.
 

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It all depends. If she was a very quality woman and insisted, then yes. I don't really see any women (21+ is my age bracket) waiting more than a handful of dates if your game is right
 

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Desdinova said:
I completely disagree. I usually bang a chick by the fourth date. How soon a woman has sex has nothing to do with her 'slvt' status. If she's fvcking three guys at the same time and one of them is her husband, THEN you have a slvt on your hands.

A high level of attraction will cause a woman to sleep with you quicker. A low level of attraction will cause her to look in other places for sex.
I guess we both have different opinions on what a slut is.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alle_Gory

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Deep Dish said:
I would never wait. Passionate relationships begin... passionately. It's the natural order of things.Not true, and not true.
What if she just had a major operation and needs time to heal up? There's always reasons, some are valid. Some.
 

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Alle_Gory:
What if she just had a major operation and needs time to heal up? There's always reasons, some are valid. Some.
I suppose some bizarre yet legitimate circumstance would warrant consideration, but subjected to the fluctuations of the sexual marketplace. Chances are almost guaranteed the girl would be your average girl with no endearing characteristics which are not readily replaceable. So the multiple prospects would keep spinning, increasing the chances of finding someone else, equally suitable sans medical complications, before the girl was done with her healing.
SamTheHobit:
Imagine how many guys she fvcked before you, if she fvcked you on the the first few dates. Perhaps a girl who has had many sexual parthners doesn't really bother you.. But I can't imagine you having any respect for her.
Imagine the infinite wisdom you would have gained if you actually read (for comprehension) the link I gave you.

I have a zinger of truth for you: sluts have high standards. Sluts are only ‘sluts’ towards men of high value. What this means for men of lower value is the sluts act more prudishly, conservatively, make the guy wait longer, mimicking the façade behavior of “good girls.” It’s a holding pattern at the airport while other airplanes land. The fact of the matter is you can wait three months for sex with a girl and for her to be promiscuous. The game of women is a chameleon cloaked in wearing social masks.

There are also three stages of seduction—attraction, comfort, and seduction—but if you spend too much time in the comfort stage, your seduction loses its momentum, destroying your seduction. When a girl is primed, strike when the iron is hot. When you run good tight game, the iron will be hotter a lot sooner. But don't confuse the speed the iron strikes hot as necessarily reflective of her bedposts with the rest of society—it could simply be she really likes you.

There are telltale signs you’re dealing with a slut, but a girl’s speed limit with you, individually, isn’t one of them. Even though sluts make horrible girlfriends, they are sure fun.
 

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So you're saying if a girl fvcks you on the first night she's not a slut? After all this is a "speed limit". I'm willing to put money on it, she has fvcked many guys.

I don't really give a fvck what anyone thinks but quality women are the ones you wait for.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
So you're saying if a girl fvcks you on the first night she's not a slut?
She could be a slut, but you missed the point. The quickness to bed should not be used to infer a woman’s sexual history, as it is simply too unreliable. A slut can proverbially sleep with the whole football team but make you wait six weeks, whereas if you are the right guy, at the right time, with the right game, a genuine “quality girl” can be so charmed and enamored by you, so deep in her desires, she throws caution to the wind and bangs on the first night.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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