"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you wait 90 days to have sex with a girl?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most chicks that fvck in the first few weeks are slvts... So in other words if a chick wants to wait then I have no problem.
 

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Yeah, just if I'm not head over heels with butterflies in my stomach, then I'm definitely not going to stick around for so long ;)
 

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Look up the iron rules of tomassi.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ArcBound said:
Look up the iron rules of tomassi.
Hey bro,
I clicked on the link for that "Paul The King" and it was REALLY good (along with entertaining pictures). Thanks for the link.
 

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Sure, just as long as I'm not getting sloppy seconds and she's a quality girl. The good things you wait for. On the other hand how to be sure she's quality and not sloppy seconds?
 

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I might, but i'd be pursuing other girls at the same time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamTheHobit said:
Most chicks that fvck in the first few weeks are slvts... So in other words if a chick wants to wait then I have no problem.
I completely disagree. I usually bang a chick by the fourth date. How soon a woman has sex has nothing to do with her 'slvt' status. If she's fvcking three guys at the same time and one of them is her husband, THEN you have a slvt on your hands.

A high level of attraction will cause a woman to sleep with you quicker. A low level of attraction will cause her to look in other places for sex.
 

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It all depends. If she was a very quality woman and insisted, then yes. I don't really see any women (21+ is my age bracket) waiting more than a handful of dates if your game is right
 

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Desdinova said:
I completely disagree. I usually bang a chick by the fourth date. How soon a woman has sex has nothing to do with her 'slvt' status. If she's fvcking three guys at the same time and one of them is her husband, THEN you have a slvt on your hands.

A high level of attraction will cause a woman to sleep with you quicker. A low level of attraction will cause her to look in other places for sex.
I guess we both have different opinions on what a slut is.
 

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Deep Dish said:
I would never wait. Passionate relationships begin... passionately. It's the natural order of things.Not true, and not true.
What if she just had a major operation and needs time to heal up? There's always reasons, some are valid. Some.
 

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Alle_Gory:
What if she just had a major operation and needs time to heal up? There's always reasons, some are valid. Some.
I suppose some bizarre yet legitimate circumstance would warrant consideration, but subjected to the fluctuations of the sexual marketplace. Chances are almost guaranteed the girl would be your average girl with no endearing characteristics which are not readily replaceable. So the multiple prospects would keep spinning, increasing the chances of finding someone else, equally suitable sans medical complications, before the girl was done with her healing.
SamTheHobit:
Imagine how many guys she fvcked before you, if she fvcked you on the the first few dates. Perhaps a girl who has had many sexual parthners doesn't really bother you.. But I can't imagine you having any respect for her.
Imagine the infinite wisdom you would have gained if you actually read (for comprehension) the link I gave you.

I have a zinger of truth for you: sluts have high standards. Sluts are only ‘sluts’ towards men of high value. What this means for men of lower value is the sluts act more prudishly, conservatively, make the guy wait longer, mimicking the façade behavior of “good girls.” It’s a holding pattern at the airport while other airplanes land. The fact of the matter is you can wait three months for sex with a girl and for her to be promiscuous. The game of women is a chameleon cloaked in wearing social masks.

There are also three stages of seduction—attraction, comfort, and seduction—but if you spend too much time in the comfort stage, your seduction loses its momentum, destroying your seduction. When a girl is primed, strike when the iron is hot. When you run good tight game, the iron will be hotter a lot sooner. But don't confuse the speed the iron strikes hot as necessarily reflective of her bedposts with the rest of society—it could simply be she really likes you.

There are telltale signs you’re dealing with a slut, but a girl’s speed limit with you, individually, isn’t one of them. Even though sluts make horrible girlfriends, they are sure fun.
 

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So you're saying if a girl fvcks you on the first night she's not a slut? After all this is a "speed limit". I'm willing to put money on it, she has fvcked many guys.

I don't really give a fvck what anyone thinks but quality women are the ones you wait for.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
So you're saying if a girl fvcks you on the first night she's not a slut?
She could be a slut, but you missed the point. The quickness to bed should not be used to infer a woman’s sexual history, as it is simply too unreliable. A slut can proverbially sleep with the whole football team but make you wait six weeks, whereas if you are the right guy, at the right time, with the right game, a genuine “quality girl” can be so charmed and enamored by you, so deep in her desires, she throws caution to the wind and bangs on the first night.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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