“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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would you use this line?

_sideways_

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Would you use this line or something similar....

I was waiting for the train and I saw this woman with shapely legs....legs are very important to me.

I wanted to go up and compliment her on her dress first, then mention her great legs. She knows she has them and I like them.

have you guys had success being bold or would you word it different?
or is that immature? She was obviously in her 30s.


side note..

I didn't do anything...which is why I'm here asking.. Ugh...i hate hesitation. .

but


some young skinny blonde chicks were promoting stuff and I conversated with the youngins so I forgot about the legs.

I'm glad I can come here and share ideas with you players
 

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You earn money so you can buy the big juicy steak; you don't go straight in to the field waving a machete like a mad man.

To clarify; I talk to a woman like a human being, like the suave scheister I am, not like a desperate schoolboy (I'm a face/tits/ass/leg man - yeah, I like 9s and 10s only).

They call it 'game' for a reason dude. You gotta play a while for the prize you're after, whatever it might be.
 

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In general it's not a good idea to start out complimenting on physical attributes, esp the 9's and 10's who already know this. You may think it's flattering, but she's sick of guys complimenting her a$$ and legs and b00bs and body, knowing they're just trying to get in her pants.

If you're going to compliment her, make it something like her smile or the way she carries herself, or her shoes or tell her she looks "interesting". Hell, i'd even prefer a good neg or tongue in cheek ****y teasing over a straight compliment.

I feel your pain. When we see a gorgeous woman, the irrational side of us takes over and the first thing we want to blurt out is how fvcking beautiful she is. It feels like a good idea, but it's never successful. You have to resist this urge.
 

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Thanks for reminding me to hold my horses bros.

yea its a game and furthermore its a reminder that I gotta keep my stable full so I'm not lusting over a beautiful pair of legs.
 

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gravityeyelids said:
In general it's not a good idea to start out complimenting on physical attributes, esp the 9's and 10's who already know this. You may think it's flattering, but she's sick of guys complimenting her a$$ and legs and b00bs and body, knowing they're just trying to get in her pants.

If you're going to compliment her, make it something like her smile or the way she carries herself, or her shoes or tell her she looks "interesting". Hell, i'd even prefer a good neg or tongue in cheek ****y teasing over a straight compliment.

I feel your pain. When we see a gorgeous woman, the irrational side of us takes over and the first thing we want to blurt out is how fvcking beautiful she is. It feels like a good idea, but it's never successful. You have to resist this urge.
Solid.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If she's anything higher than a 7, Neg hitting her is your best option if you want to go that route. I don't like it either, but from all the compliments and attention from all these guys, attacking her ego isn't such a bad idea. If you can use your opponent against themselves, then do it. I think Sun Tzu said something like that in his book.
 

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If I've seen her for quite a while and she's been good for ages, and I see her looking particularly hot, I might use a bit of sarcasm like, 'Wow. You look awful today', or some such. I wouldn't ever qualify upon first meeting though. Or even in the first few meetings.

What we need to understand is that women are obsessed by appearance, because they know that male primal urges in this species are driven almost entirely driven by aesthetics. Therefore, once appreciation of a woman's aesthetics are qualified, she no longer has a challenge.

You only need to view social media, on a daily if not hourly basis, the way targets seek aesthetic qualification an the way beta-boys wantonly bow to that qualification. It makes me physically sick to see. These saps don't make life any easier for the rest of us.
 

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Most hot women hate compliments because its not congruent with what they think about themselves.

I wouldn't neg some random either. Your job is to create comfort. You are a complete stranger and its weird rocking up on the set like that. Once you create comfort, then you build on attraction and rapport. This is what I'm working on right now.

People will naturally be on guard when you enter their space, even our loved ones notice the space being opened up. Perhaps you could open from a distance, then move closer? I dont know, I might try this out tonight!
 
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If you got a 'take it or leave it' attitude then you can pretty much say anything you want (with a little cheeky smile of course).
 

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gravityeyelids +1

I only compliment women on things other than looks.

A man who can look past the "assets" of 9s/10s etc is perceived as a man who has had many experiences with such women.
 

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_sideways_ said:
I wanted to go up and compliment her on her dress first, then mention her great legs. She knows she has them and I like them.

physical compliments are useless because tons of men have already done it and there is no need to compliment a woman for something that was given to her.
 
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