Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Would you guys consider having a long term intimate relationship with a woman you were involved in a threesome with?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Would you take a threesome woman seriously?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
speedo_meme
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after i watched another guy f*ck her? h*ll no, absolutely no way, just my opinion...
wait, was the threesome with another guy or a girl....not like it matters, i don't want a girl in a LTR that does sh*t like that....
wait, was the threesome with another guy or a girl....not like it matters, i don't want a girl in a LTR that does sh*t like that....
MacAvoy
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I am not sure about that. I know that I would have a three some w/ a women that I am already in a LTR with but only under strict guidelines that I set, and I would only do it if I knew she wasn't likely to start seeing women behind my back. You can tell about the women's outlook on the subject if she is likely. A good straight women will take a while to warm up to the idea and only after long thought will she warm up to the idea.
However, I don't know if I would ever enter a LTR w/ a women I've had a threesome w/. The only women I've had threesomes w/ have not exactly been wholesome women.
I'm guessing in your case, if you've had a threesome w/ her before knowing her that long, she is pretty sexually open and I would seriously question her ability to commit or her overall mental health/stability. The women I've had threesomes, all have had their "issues".
However, I don't know if I would ever enter a LTR w/ a women I've had a threesome w/. The only women I've had threesomes w/ have not exactly been wholesome women.
I'm guessing in your case, if you've had a threesome w/ her before knowing her that long, she is pretty sexually open and I would seriously question her ability to commit or her overall mental health/stability. The women I've had threesomes, all have had their "issues".
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Dude, I'm a DUDE
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
MacAvoy
Banned
Re: Dude, I'm a DUDE
We have a buddy that we call SweetCheeks, after he spent a weekend in jail, how about a big SWEET CHEEKS everybody! :cheer:Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
From a cynical point of view...HELL YEAH.....you could marry a choir girl from your church and get cheated on.....so I say hook up with the threesome chick and let the good times roll. Go into this with your eyes open and you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
If you are looking for a quality, low-drama LTR, then start dating some of the Filipina nurses you work with.
If you are looking for a quality, low-drama LTR, then start dating some of the Filipina nurses you work with.
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
I have.
I've dated a few of them. In fact, I'm dating one now.
BTW, this was just an idle question. I, personally, wouldn't date the girls I've had threesomes with. Call me insensitive, call me conservative, whatever. I'm just not comfortable with seeing the "wild child" as the mother of my children.
I've dated a few of them. In fact, I'm dating one now.
BTW, this was just an idle question. I, personally, wouldn't date the girls I've had threesomes with. Call me insensitive, call me conservative, whatever. I'm just not comfortable with seeing the "wild child" as the mother of my children.
I dated a woman I had a threesome with another girl with for a few years and she looked out for me like no other. First, of course, she was adventurous in bed and loved to have sex. She cooked, cleaned, ran errands for me with no complaints, and treated my son well and dealt with endless babby momma drama but gave no signs of annoyance. Hell, she even volunteered to carry a child during pregnancy for my sister and her husband.
She showered me with much love and I thought it was cool that she looked so good with a great figure and so many other guys wanted her but she was mine.
But I couldn't get out of my mind that I actually had a threesome with her in the past. Even though the thought turned me on at times, it also mad me suspicious of her so I decide that I couldn't marry her. I eventually dumped her. I have never found a woman as good as her since.
That relationship kind of put things into perpective for my personal life. I wondered if it was worth it to sweat the sex issues if a woman is great in so many other areas- just something to think about.
She showered me with much love and I thought it was cool that she looked so good with a great figure and so many other guys wanted her but she was mine.
But I couldn't get out of my mind that I actually had a threesome with her in the past. Even though the thought turned me on at times, it also mad me suspicious of her so I decide that I couldn't marry her. I eventually dumped her. I have never found a woman as good as her since.
That relationship kind of put things into perpective for my personal life. I wondered if it was worth it to sweat the sex issues if a woman is great in so many other areas- just something to think about.
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Solace, that is a very sad story
I guess that what we can learn from your experience is not to risk getting TOO adventurous with someone who is a long-termer.
I don't think too many men/women can overcome the social conditioning that we have had since childhood, at least, not for long.
The past CAN potentially come back to haunt a person, regardless of who you are and what you have achieved since.
Something to think about. Thanks for sharing.
I guess that what we can learn from your experience is not to risk getting TOO adventurous with someone who is a long-termer.
I don't think too many men/women can overcome the social conditioning that we have had since childhood, at least, not for long.
The past CAN potentially come back to haunt a person, regardless of who you are and what you have achieved since.
Something to think about. Thanks for sharing.