Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Would you guys consider having a long term intimate relationship with a woman you were involved in a threesome with?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you take a threesome woman seriously?
- Thread starter Sweetcheeks
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
speedo_meme
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after i watched another guy f*ck her? h*ll no, absolutely no way, just my opinion...
wait, was the threesome with another guy or a girl....not like it matters, i don't want a girl in a LTR that does sh*t like that....
wait, was the threesome with another guy or a girl....not like it matters, i don't want a girl in a LTR that does sh*t like that....
MacAvoy
Banned
I am not sure about that. I know that I would have a three some w/ a women that I am already in a LTR with but only under strict guidelines that I set, and I would only do it if I knew she wasn't likely to start seeing women behind my back. You can tell about the women's outlook on the subject if she is likely. A good straight women will take a while to warm up to the idea and only after long thought will she warm up to the idea.
However, I don't know if I would ever enter a LTR w/ a women I've had a threesome w/. The only women I've had threesomes w/ have not exactly been wholesome women.
I'm guessing in your case, if you've had a threesome w/ her before knowing her that long, she is pretty sexually open and I would seriously question her ability to commit or her overall mental health/stability. The women I've had threesomes, all have had their "issues".
However, I don't know if I would ever enter a LTR w/ a women I've had a threesome w/. The only women I've had threesomes w/ have not exactly been wholesome women.
I'm guessing in your case, if you've had a threesome w/ her before knowing her that long, she is pretty sexually open and I would seriously question her ability to commit or her overall mental health/stability. The women I've had threesomes, all have had their "issues".
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Dude, I'm a DUDE
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
MacAvoy
Banned
Re: Dude, I'm a DUDE
We have a buddy that we call SweetCheeks, after he spent a weekend in jail, how about a big SWEET CHEEKS everybody! :cheer:Originally posted by Sweetcheeks
I'm not a woman.
The name comes from the nurses I worked with that try to grab my ass.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
From a cynical point of view...HELL YEAH.....you could marry a choir girl from your church and get cheated on.....so I say hook up with the threesome chick and let the good times roll. Go into this with your eyes open and you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
If you are looking for a quality, low-drama LTR, then start dating some of the Filipina nurses you work with.
If you are looking for a quality, low-drama LTR, then start dating some of the Filipina nurses you work with.
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
I have.
I've dated a few of them. In fact, I'm dating one now.
BTW, this was just an idle question. I, personally, wouldn't date the girls I've had threesomes with. Call me insensitive, call me conservative, whatever. I'm just not comfortable with seeing the "wild child" as the mother of my children.
I've dated a few of them. In fact, I'm dating one now.
BTW, this was just an idle question. I, personally, wouldn't date the girls I've had threesomes with. Call me insensitive, call me conservative, whatever. I'm just not comfortable with seeing the "wild child" as the mother of my children.
I dated a woman I had a threesome with another girl with for a few years and she looked out for me like no other. First, of course, she was adventurous in bed and loved to have sex. She cooked, cleaned, ran errands for me with no complaints, and treated my son well and dealt with endless babby momma drama but gave no signs of annoyance. Hell, she even volunteered to carry a child during pregnancy for my sister and her husband.
She showered me with much love and I thought it was cool that she looked so good with a great figure and so many other guys wanted her but she was mine.
But I couldn't get out of my mind that I actually had a threesome with her in the past. Even though the thought turned me on at times, it also mad me suspicious of her so I decide that I couldn't marry her. I eventually dumped her. I have never found a woman as good as her since.
That relationship kind of put things into perpective for my personal life. I wondered if it was worth it to sweat the sex issues if a woman is great in so many other areas- just something to think about.
She showered me with much love and I thought it was cool that she looked so good with a great figure and so many other guys wanted her but she was mine.
But I couldn't get out of my mind that I actually had a threesome with her in the past. Even though the thought turned me on at times, it also mad me suspicious of her so I decide that I couldn't marry her. I eventually dumped her. I have never found a woman as good as her since.
That relationship kind of put things into perpective for my personal life. I wondered if it was worth it to sweat the sex issues if a woman is great in so many other areas- just something to think about.
Sweetcheeks
Don Juan
Solace, that is a very sad story
I guess that what we can learn from your experience is not to risk getting TOO adventurous with someone who is a long-termer.
I don't think too many men/women can overcome the social conditioning that we have had since childhood, at least, not for long.
The past CAN potentially come back to haunt a person, regardless of who you are and what you have achieved since.
Something to think about. Thanks for sharing.
I guess that what we can learn from your experience is not to risk getting TOO adventurous with someone who is a long-termer.
I don't think too many men/women can overcome the social conditioning that we have had since childhood, at least, not for long.
The past CAN potentially come back to haunt a person, regardless of who you are and what you have achieved since.
Something to think about. Thanks for sharing.