"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you still want to get married in 2021?

Would you still want to marry

  • Yes due to religious/cultural reasons

    Votes: 5 13.2%

  • Yes but only with an iron clad prenup

    Votes: 6 15.8%

  • No, already have been divorced

    Votes: 5 13.2%

  • Never wanted to get married

    Votes: 17 44.7%

  • Other(please specify)

    Votes: 5 13.2%
  • Total voters
    38

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter said:
:rofl: lol...Especially... when there are none to be found.
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I used to want to marry when i was a teenager, due to cultural reasons. But nobody my age ever had any serious intention of marrying. I eventually just gave up on the whole idea in my 20s when i learnt how much marriage would screw over a man anyways.

mrskinnypantz said:
If you want one women in your life 24/7 for sex you’re gonna have to deal with games and other bull****, I’m gonna fvck these b1tches and gtfo before she can blow my high...
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You still have to deal with that sh*t when you date women though, I really do wish we can just relax and enjoy things without having to deal with juvenile games from women.

I can honestly see why rich guys just get escorts, It's honestly something I'm actively working towards now.
 
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Zimbabwe said:
I used to want to marry when i was a teenager, due to cultural reasons. But nobody my age ever had any serious intention of marrying. I eventually just gave up on the whole idea in my 20s when i learnt how much marriage would screw over a man anyways.



You still have to deal with that sh*t when you date women though, I really do wish we can just relax and enjoy things without having to deal with juvenile games from women.

I can honestly see why rich guys just get escorts, It's honestly something I'm actively working towards now.
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I heard that. You always gone deal with some bs anyway . But deciding to live with a woman or get married , you won’t be able to escape it.
I swear idk how dudes have successful marriages , it’s the biggest magic trick in history .
 
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Zimbabwe said:
With the family court being on the side of women, and men being screwed over in most divorces would you still want to marry?

I'm really curious why or why not men would still want to get married in this day and age, where 50% of marriages end in divorce.

Me personally I'm still on the fence, I want to be able to raise a family one day and marriage seems like the only option.
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I never wanted it.
Since i was a little kid like 7-10 I asked myself why you would ever need a paper stating "I love you". It simply doesn't make sense. If the girl really loves you and ditto then there isn't and should never be a need for that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lobo you are so special and all knowing.
 
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Zimbabwe said:
The only reason men want a woman 24/7 is because they think it means sex 24/7 as well
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it can work like that. if the woman is telling no, then a problem exists.
 
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mrskinnypantz said:
I heard that. You always gone deal with some bs anyway . But deciding to live with a woman or get married , you won’t be able to escape it.
I swear idk how dudes have successful marriages , it’s the biggest magic trick in history .
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I’ve also wondered this. Not just marriage but relationships. Like how betas can be in a relationship with a girl but a guy like me who isn’t a full chad but definitely not a simp can’t keep a girl around. Very mysterious to me.

Anyhow I voted never wanted to get married. I always wanted multiple women even at a young age which made growing up in a super religious household tons of fun
 
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Zimbabwe said:
With the family court being on the side of women, and men being screwed over in most divorces would you still want to marry?

I'm really curious why or why not men would still want to get married in this day and age, where 50% of marriages end in divorce.

Me personally I'm still on the fence, I want to be able to raise a family one day and marriage seems like the only option.
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It depends on the country and the background of the person you're marrying.

If you do it in the USA you need to get a prenup arranged by a lawyer to protect your assets.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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