"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Would you still want to get married in 2021?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Zimbabwe
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I used to want to marry when i was a teenager, due to cultural reasons. But nobody my age ever had any serious intention of marrying. I eventually just gave up on the whole idea in my 20s when i learnt how much marriage would screw over a man anyways.lol...Especially... when there are none to be found.
You still have to deal with that sh*t when you date women though, I really do wish we can just relax and enjoy things without having to deal with juvenile games from women.
I can honestly see why rich guys just get escorts, It's honestly something I'm actively working towards now.
mrskinnypantz
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I heard that. You always gone deal with some bs anyway . But deciding to live with a woman or get married , you won’t be able to escape it.
I swear idk how dudes have successful marriages , it’s the biggest magic trick in history .
AureliusMaximus
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I never wanted it.
Since i was a little kid like 7-10 I asked myself why you would ever need a paper stating "I love you". It simply doesn't make sense. If the girl really loves you and ditto then there isn't and should never be a need for that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It does if you **** them down good.
metalwater
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it can work like that. if the woman is telling no, then a problem exists.
SargeMaximus
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I’ve also wondered this. Not just marriage but relationships. Like how betas can be in a relationship with a girl but a guy like me who isn’t a full chad but definitely not a simp can’t keep a girl around. Very mysterious to me.
Anyhow I voted never wanted to get married. I always wanted multiple women even at a young age which made growing up in a super religious household tons of fun
bat soup
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It depends on the country and the background of the person you're marrying.
If you do it in the USA you need to get a prenup arranged by a lawyer to protect your assets.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrskinnypantz
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this is actually becoming very popular these days , on the bright side the poly life is getting more normal.