"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Would you still want to get married in 2021?
- Thread starter Zimbabwe
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Zimbabwe
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I used to want to marry when i was a teenager, due to cultural reasons. But nobody my age ever had any serious intention of marrying. I eventually just gave up on the whole idea in my 20s when i learnt how much marriage would screw over a man anyways.lol...Especially... when there are none to be found.
You still have to deal with that sh*t when you date women though, I really do wish we can just relax and enjoy things without having to deal with juvenile games from women.
I can honestly see why rich guys just get escorts, It's honestly something I'm actively working towards now.
mrskinnypantz
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I heard that. You always gone deal with some bs anyway . But deciding to live with a woman or get married , you won’t be able to escape it.
I swear idk how dudes have successful marriages , it’s the biggest magic trick in history .
AureliusMaximus
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I never wanted it.
Since i was a little kid like 7-10 I asked myself why you would ever need a paper stating "I love you". It simply doesn't make sense. If the girl really loves you and ditto then there isn't and should never be a need for that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It does if you **** them down good.
metalwater
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it can work like that. if the woman is telling no, then a problem exists.
SargeMaximus
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I’ve also wondered this. Not just marriage but relationships. Like how betas can be in a relationship with a girl but a guy like me who isn’t a full chad but definitely not a simp can’t keep a girl around. Very mysterious to me.
Anyhow I voted never wanted to get married. I always wanted multiple women even at a young age which made growing up in a super religious household tons of fun
bat soup
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It depends on the country and the background of the person you're marrying.
If you do it in the USA you need to get a prenup arranged by a lawyer to protect your assets.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrskinnypantz
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this is actually becoming very popular these days , on the bright side the poly life is getting more normal.