"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Would you still want to get married in 2021?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zimbabwe
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I used to want to marry when i was a teenager, due to cultural reasons. But nobody my age ever had any serious intention of marrying. I eventually just gave up on the whole idea in my 20s when i learnt how much marriage would screw over a man anyways.lol...Especially... when there are none to be found.
You still have to deal with that sh*t when you date women though, I really do wish we can just relax and enjoy things without having to deal with juvenile games from women.
I can honestly see why rich guys just get escorts, It's honestly something I'm actively working towards now.
mrskinnypantz
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I heard that. You always gone deal with some bs anyway . But deciding to live with a woman or get married , you won’t be able to escape it.
I swear idk how dudes have successful marriages , it’s the biggest magic trick in history .
AureliusMaximus
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I never wanted it.
Since i was a little kid like 7-10 I asked myself why you would ever need a paper stating "I love you". It simply doesn't make sense. If the girl really loves you and ditto then there isn't and should never be a need for that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It does if you **** them down good.
metalwater
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it can work like that. if the woman is telling no, then a problem exists.
SargeMaximus
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I’ve also wondered this. Not just marriage but relationships. Like how betas can be in a relationship with a girl but a guy like me who isn’t a full chad but definitely not a simp can’t keep a girl around. Very mysterious to me.
Anyhow I voted never wanted to get married. I always wanted multiple women even at a young age which made growing up in a super religious household tons of fun
bat soup
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It depends on the country and the background of the person you're marrying.
If you do it in the USA you need to get a prenup arranged by a lawyer to protect your assets.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrskinnypantz
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this is actually becoming very popular these days , on the bright side the poly life is getting more normal.