"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you stay with your wife if she got HIV?

Would you stay with your wife if she found out she tested HIV positive?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 27.3%
  • No

    Votes: 16 72.7%

  • Total voters
    22

El Payaso

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Assuming you found out she tested positive for HIV which wasn't through cheating, would you stay with her if you tested negative?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm finding it hard to believe anyone would be callous enough to leave their wife after learning she caught HIV through no fault of her own. Drug abuse or cheating I'd understand.
 

thatfeel

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Yeah, I agree with :).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KingBeef

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Very difficult question.... I wish there more details available but if I had to make the decision (based on also wanting to have children) I would have to say no but it's still a difficult decision...
 

FairShake

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If she got AIDS through cheating or drug usage? Of course I'd leave her. What am I, a moron?

If she got AIDS through an accident like a needle stick? Of course I'd stay with her. What am I, an azzhole?
 

GS750

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I don't want to die of AIDS. So not likely.
 

PeasantPlayer

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Depends on the situation, I don't want to get married, but I want kids. Would I stay with her? If I was older year in my 60s and on. If I was younger, I couldn't be with her. We could be friends I would help and support her, the physical part of our relationship would have to seize though.
 

Naughty Fins

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FairShake said:
If she got AIDS through cheating or drug usage? Of course I'd leave her. What am I, a moron?

If she got AIDS through an accident like a needle stick? Of course I'd stay with her. What am I, an azzhole?
You nailed it. There's no reason to leave her if she didn't do anything bad.

Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naughty Fins said:
You nailed it. There's no reason to leave her if she didn't do anything bad.

Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
How could she have gotten herself raped unless she put herself into a closed environment with another "interested" male and she shouldn't have been in the position in the first place cause she has you?
 

FairShake

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Naughty Fins said:
Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
Got herself raped? Wait what? That's a pretty sh!tty way of putting it, certainly it couldn't get any worse.

How could she have gotten herself raped unless she put herself into a closed environment with another "interested" male and she shouldn't have been in the position in the first place cause she has you?
Oh, nevermind. :box:
 

backbreaker

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you guys are all doing it wrong lol


1. stay with wife to be all sentimental and ****

2. change her HIV medication to aspirin so she hurry up and dies

3. profit from being a widower
 

mangotot

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Most people will leave but not straight away though. They'll start backtracking slowly but surely.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mangotot

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backbreaker said:
you guys are all doing it wrong lol


1. stay with wife to be all sentimental and ****

2. change her HIV medication to aspirin so she hurry up and dies

3. profit from being a widower
You sir is a smart cookie.
 

Masculinity

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From a psychological standpoint, just keep in mind that what people SAY they would do and what they would ACTUALLY do are usually two different things.
Some will see this as cold; I see it as an act of self-preservation. I would leave that woman as soon as possible.
 

YAboi

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It's very much allowed in the holy Christian bible;


Matthew 5:31-32 ESV
“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife,
let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But
I say to you that everyone who divorces his
wife, except on the ground of sexual
immorality, makes her commit adultery, and
whoever marries a divorced woman commits
adultery.
 

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No Contact day 2

having a hard time. thinking a lot about her. Missing her and feel like contacting her.
 

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El Payaso said:
Assuming you found out she tested positive for HIV which wasn't through cheating, would you stay with her if you tested negative?
El Payaso has full blown AIDS. Damn your a POS. WTF is wrong with you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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