"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you stay with your wife if she got HIV?

Would you stay with your wife if she found out she tested HIV positive?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 27.3%

  • No

    Votes: 16 72.7%
  • Total voters
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El Payaso

El Payaso

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Assuming you found out she tested positive for HIV which wasn't through cheating, would you stay with her if you tested negative?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm finding it hard to believe anyone would be callous enough to leave their wife after learning she caught HIV through no fault of her own. Drug abuse or cheating I'd understand.
 
thatfeel

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Yeah, I agree with :).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Very difficult question.... I wish there more details available but if I had to make the decision (based on also wanting to have children) I would have to say no but it's still a difficult decision...
 
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If she got AIDS through cheating or drug usage? Of course I'd leave her. What am I, a moron?

If she got AIDS through an accident like a needle stick? Of course I'd stay with her. What am I, an azzhole?
 
GS750

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I don't want to die of AIDS. So not likely.
 
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Depends on the situation, I don't want to get married, but I want kids. Would I stay with her? If I was older year in my 60s and on. If I was younger, I couldn't be with her. We could be friends I would help and support her, the physical part of our relationship would have to seize though.
 
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FairShake said:
If she got AIDS through cheating or drug usage? Of course I'd leave her. What am I, a moron?

If she got AIDS through an accident like a needle stick? Of course I'd stay with her. What am I, an azzhole?
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You nailed it. There's no reason to leave her if she didn't do anything bad.

Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty Fins said:
You nailed it. There's no reason to leave her if she didn't do anything bad.

Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
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How could she have gotten herself raped unless she put herself into a closed environment with another "interested" male and she shouldn't have been in the position in the first place cause she has you?
 
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Naughty Fins said:
Although if she got herself raped that's a different kind of accident. I'd say goodbye immediately.
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Got herself raped? Wait what? That's a pretty sh!tty way of putting it, certainly it couldn't get any worse.

How could she have gotten herself raped unless she put herself into a closed environment with another "interested" male and she shouldn't have been in the position in the first place cause she has you?
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Oh, nevermind. :box:
 
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you guys are all doing it wrong lol


1. stay with wife to be all sentimental and ****

2. change her HIV medication to aspirin so she hurry up and dies

3. profit from being a widower
 
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Most people will leave but not straight away though. They'll start backtracking slowly but surely.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mangotot

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backbreaker said:
you guys are all doing it wrong lol


1. stay with wife to be all sentimental and ****

2. change her HIV medication to aspirin so she hurry up and dies

3. profit from being a widower
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You sir is a smart cookie.
 
Masculinity

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From a psychological standpoint, just keep in mind that what people SAY they would do and what they would ACTUALLY do are usually two different things.
Some will see this as cold; I see it as an act of self-preservation. I would leave that woman as soon as possible.
 
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It's very much allowed in the holy Christian bible;


Matthew 5:31-32 ESV
“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife,
let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But
I say to you that everyone who divorces his
wife, except on the ground of sexual
immorality, makes her commit adultery, and
whoever marries a divorced woman commits
adultery.
 
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No Contact day 2

having a hard time. thinking a lot about her. Missing her and feel like contacting her.
 
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El Payaso said:
Assuming you found out she tested positive for HIV which wasn't through cheating, would you stay with her if you tested negative?
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El Payaso has full blown AIDS. Damn your a POS. WTF is wrong with you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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