"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would You Rather...?

HyenaPrince

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Would you rather:

1. Have a rather unattractive girlfriend who's obese and has, let's say, crooked and yellow teeth etc. But you drank a magic potion so you see and feel her as a perfectly fine HB10.

2. Have a legitimate HB10 which can also seen as such by other men. In this case though she has drank a magic potion that makes her obsessed with you. This means she won't even think about acting up or leaving you.

I'm sure you guys know where I'm getting at. I'm curious about your choices.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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Isn't this the plot of Shallow Hal?

Anyway, I pick #2. Because loyalty is by far the rarest trait in women.
 

HyenaPrince

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Isn't this the plot of Shallow Hal?

Anyway, I pick #2. Because loyalty is by far the rarest trait in women.
Never saw that one. But wouldn't you think that the "ugly" one would be loyal as well?
 

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Never saw that one. But wouldn't you think that the "ugly" one would be loyal as well?
It's not a sure thing with any woman. #1 also has the drawback of you not seeing reality.
The main problem with #2 is the obsession, that could be a very big issue. But removing the disloyalty problem gets rid of a horde of female problems.
Neither option is ideal, but the rarity of loyalty, plus the rarity of 10s (which I don't even believe in) is too good for me to pass up.
 

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3. Cup of coffee and fresh bread

No one of this options attractive to me lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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