"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you obey your wife's command to urinate sitting down?

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I used to religiously leave the seat up just to assert my frame, but now I actually always close the lid because I thought of how that toilet water steadily evaporates into the air.
Similar reason here. To me, the inside of a toilet represents the most disgusting part of being human, so I want the regular state to be where it is hidden.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have always put the lid down, also in public restrooms, I´m used to do it that way.
It´s a neutral ground, but otherwise, given the fact that both men and women sit to ****, I would mind leaving just the seat down. It´s true at least for me that you leave some stains when you pee standing up but I always clean them, even when they are from someone whom I live with, I can´t stand them neiter; sometimes it seems a joke when you hear women telling men to pee sitting down, I even remember one primary school teacher complaining about it.
I don´t understand why toilets don´t have some kind of hole that goes to the pipe that works as a urinal, it´s like they don´t care about male anatomy. When I get my own apartment I´m surely installing a wall urinal.
Edit: I didn´t realize this is a section for older people, sorry. Guess a moderator can delete this.
 
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I used to religiously leave the seat up just to assert my frame, but now I actually always close the lid because I thought of how that toilet water steadily evaporates into the air.
That right there is a new level of frugality. I like it!
 
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To be honest, though, I do sit down to pee when I wake up in the middle of the night. Larry David was right about that bit - fvck turning on the light.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
That right there is a new level of frugality. I like it!
LOL, it's not for the frugality. It's because I figure germs might be floating around in the air.
 

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LOL, it's not for the frugality. It's because I figure germs might be floating around in the air.
funny is you are right, I lower the lid too but jsut because 3 things, prevent from thing to drop in there (small bathrooms like in my office help on that), everytime you flush the water will spill, and vapor of water will go out, with the lid down it prevents most of it, and doing so it neutral she will still need to raise the lid to do anything, also
I never let my toothbrush in the bathroom anymore :p, I have a save clean place in another place to leave it, i'm sure no roaches and other insects will go.

but serious there was not a country, don't remember if was sueden, was one country in europe, who would pass a law to fine mens who piss standing, and make then all sit to pee, serious no guy hit his penis in the vase when sitting to pee?
 
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