backseatjuan
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Yes or no? And why not or why yes?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Would you marry Shasha Grey?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Papa_smu
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I don't think she's interested in marrying anyone.
redskinsfan92
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No
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
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Awwww. But what about DJ motto, I don't care who she slept with before??
She has a net worth of 3 million. So maybe.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
R u sure that's a DJ motto?
Or the Beta's self rationalisation towards oneitis?
Ain't no man alive that's worth his salt ever gonna marry such a woman. However I've no doubt some guy will wife her up and take a wild guess what type of guy does so...
revolutionnow
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Not that particular porn star but crazier things have happened
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
R
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I don’t think what I would do to her is considered marriage.
What's the difference if a woman has taken 100s of meat pipes in the porn industry vs. a woman who has taken a few dozen off TV?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The image and entitlement should be greater in the porn. So itll kill more of your life.
Well I know I'm not strong enough to have her as a plate or even as a ONS (I'll regret it afterwards). I wouldn't be able to ignore her past and how she was gang f'ked 7 ways till Sunday and fapped to by millions. It'll eat away at me little by little until I would drive myself crazy but I'm not a red-pilled alpha lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Is it possible she can treat you like a king, offsetting her past? Or thats highly unlikely. Shell use you as the luxury of a loving a reliable cuck.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
R
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Yes and this is a problem? Lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The cuck option is a problem. If she wants to treat you like a great guy that wouldnt be a issue.
Highly unlikely. Hypothetically speaking, even if, I don't think that'll be enough for me personally.
Well, I'll probably be towards the bottom of her list of suitors but if I ever got called to serve...I'll just have to decline lol
R
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Oh I don’t do relationships that try to go past the physical.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That'll keep you out of 90% of the issues the rest of us encounter.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.