backseatjuan
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Yes or no? And why not or why yes?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Would you marry Shasha Grey?
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Papa_smu
Banned
I don't think she's interested in marrying anyone.
redskinsfan92
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No
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
Banned
Awwww. But what about DJ motto, I don't care who she slept with before??
She has a net worth of 3 million. So maybe.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
R u sure that's a DJ motto?
Or the Beta's self rationalisation towards oneitis?
Ain't no man alive that's worth his salt ever gonna marry such a woman. However I've no doubt some guy will wife her up and take a wild guess what type of guy does so...
revolutionnow
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Not that particular porn star but crazier things have happened
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
R
Ranger
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I don’t think what I would do to her is considered marriage.
What's the difference if a woman has taken 100s of meat pipes in the porn industry vs. a woman who has taken a few dozen off TV?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The image and entitlement should be greater in the porn. So itll kill more of your life.
Well I know I'm not strong enough to have her as a plate or even as a ONS (I'll regret it afterwards). I wouldn't be able to ignore her past and how she was gang f'ked 7 ways till Sunday and fapped to by millions. It'll eat away at me little by little until I would drive myself crazy but I'm not a red-pilled alpha lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Is it possible she can treat you like a king, offsetting her past? Or thats highly unlikely. Shell use you as the luxury of a loving a reliable cuck.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
R
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Yes and this is a problem? Lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The cuck option is a problem. If she wants to treat you like a great guy that wouldnt be a issue.
Highly unlikely. Hypothetically speaking, even if, I don't think that'll be enough for me personally.
Well, I'll probably be towards the bottom of her list of suitors but if I ever got called to serve...I'll just have to decline lol
R
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Oh I don’t do relationships that try to go past the physical.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That'll keep you out of 90% of the issues the rest of us encounter.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.