backseatjuan
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Yes or no? And why not or why yes?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Would you marry Shasha Grey?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Papa_smu
Banned
I don't think she's interested in marrying anyone.
redskinsfan92
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No
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
Banned
Awwww. But what about DJ motto, I don't care who she slept with before??
She has a net worth of 3 million. So maybe.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
But I'm not exactly blessed in the hardware department so I'd be worried about fulfilling her. So nah, I'd just go along for the roomy ride until my alpha male jealousy wrecked it all to sh!t.
Don't care too much about the pr0n stuff btw. I've DATED strippers in the past so sex workers are no big deal to me in theory.
R u sure that's a DJ motto?
Or the Beta's self rationalisation towards oneitis?
Ain't no man alive that's worth his salt ever gonna marry such a woman. However I've no doubt some guy will wife her up and take a wild guess what type of guy does so...
revolutionnow
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Not that particular porn star but crazier things have happened
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
R
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I don’t think what I would do to her is considered marriage.
What's the difference if a woman has taken 100s of meat pipes in the porn industry vs. a woman who has taken a few dozen off TV?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
A more interesting question would've been if people here would spin her as a plate?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The image and entitlement should be greater in the porn. So itll kill more of your life.
Well I know I'm not strong enough to have her as a plate or even as a ONS (I'll regret it afterwards). I wouldn't be able to ignore her past and how she was gang f'ked 7 ways till Sunday and fapped to by millions. It'll eat away at me little by little until I would drive myself crazy but I'm not a red-pilled alpha lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Is it possible she can treat you like a king, offsetting her past? Or thats highly unlikely. Shell use you as the luxury of a loving a reliable cuck.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
R
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Yes and this is a problem? Lol
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The cuck option is a problem. If she wants to treat you like a great guy that wouldnt be a issue.
Highly unlikely. Hypothetically speaking, even if, I don't think that'll be enough for me personally.
Well, I'll probably be towards the bottom of her list of suitors but if I ever got called to serve...I'll just have to decline lol
R
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Oh I don’t do relationships that try to go past the physical.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That'll keep you out of 90% of the issues the rest of us encounter.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.