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Knowing ur the bad ass man u r....would u marry for cash...I met some girls who would. Are guys any different?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Would you marry for money
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
nope, Snap call would do it. get in nulled then turn that money into more $$$$$
narcissist
Master Don Juan
yes
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Would you marry for money?
I did. And I think I am the only divorced guy on here who does not regret getting married.
I did. And I think I am the only divorced guy on here who does not regret getting married.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Starfvcks 64
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I've been thinking of not even getting with a girl until she buys me something first. Seems like a good exercise in self control, and truly understanding game.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It was more like a sweet marriage deal. Her parents own a resort hotel in the Caribbean. They paid our rent for years. I qualified for student loans due to being married, at 21 I would otherwise have not. She got a green card and vastly reduced college tuition. And they flew us down to see them at Christmas.zekko said:
I was already living back in Illinois when we divorced. She paid for it. We had no kids and no joint assets. To this day she regrets divorcing me. I know, because she calls and tells me every once in a while, even though she has since converted to Islam and re-married.
There are a ton of sosuave posts extolling the virtues of foreign women. I have always said, all you have to do to meet them is to go to your nearest university. The women you meet there will almost always be from families who are wealthy, because sending your child to college in the US is not cheap, as a foreigner who does not get financial aid.
^True....out of state tuition is double itself. I cant imagine the extra living expenses with being a foreigner to boot.
That said, tbh Ive pondered it before. I just dont know if I could live a "sham" and spend so much time with a woman I was not crazy about. But then again, if a sexy girl who was well to do, flashed her lifestyle at me....even if I wasnt crazy about her, I might give it a go for a while.
I dont think I could do the marriage thing though. But Id have some fun and see what the lifestyle was all about.
That all said...times have changed, but money has always talked. Now that women have their own cash too, we see a lot of dudes doing things we thought only gals did. I wont lie and say an exciting carefree upper-class lifestyle isnt tempting if it comes from the right woman.
That said, tbh Ive pondered it before. I just dont know if I could live a "sham" and spend so much time with a woman I was not crazy about. But then again, if a sexy girl who was well to do, flashed her lifestyle at me....even if I wasnt crazy about her, I might give it a go for a while.
I dont think I could do the marriage thing though. But Id have some fun and see what the lifestyle was all about.
That all said...times have changed, but money has always talked. Now that women have their own cash too, we see a lot of dudes doing things we thought only gals did. I wont lie and say an exciting carefree upper-class lifestyle isnt tempting if it comes from the right woman.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
out of state tuition is double itself. I cant imagine the extra living expenses with being a foreigner to boot.
She went to USF in Tampa. The state of Florida gets a lot of international students, so USF had devised a special tuition rate for them, called the "International Student" rate. Out-of-state was about doubled, as you say, and then the International rate was about another 30% on top of that. The school knew those people had money, so they were gouging them all they could. She was allowed to have part-time student work if it was on-campus, but otherwise without the green card she could not work anywhere. As soon as she married me, her family started paying about 1/3rd the tuition.
When I look at an international student who is not on scholarship, I see someone whose family is rich enough to drop $20k a year or more, sometimes much more, in expendable cash for the sake of their education. That is a tremendous screening mechanism. You end up with something like what the US calls "the 1%." Except home-grown 1% girls tend to be at schools that are much more expensive and inaccessible, compared to large state universities like USF.
She went to USF in Tampa. The state of Florida gets a lot of international students, so USF had devised a special tuition rate for them, called the "International Student" rate. Out-of-state was about doubled, as you say, and then the International rate was about another 30% on top of that. The school knew those people had money, so they were gouging them all they could. She was allowed to have part-time student work if it was on-campus, but otherwise without the green card she could not work anywhere. As soon as she married me, her family started paying about 1/3rd the tuition.
When I look at an international student who is not on scholarship, I see someone whose family is rich enough to drop $20k a year or more, sometimes much more, in expendable cash for the sake of their education. That is a tremendous screening mechanism. You end up with something like what the US calls "the 1%." Except home-grown 1% girls tend to be at schools that are much more expensive and inaccessible, compared to large state universities like USF.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
my ideal situation would be to marry a rich lawyer, and just mooch off her.Of course. As a matter of fact I wouldn't even consider marrying a woman who didn't have her own money.
Lol this. The only men getting screwed over in divorce are the ones foolish enough to provide for a woman.
Knight1994
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definently not.