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Knowing ur the bad ass man u r....would u marry for cash...I met some girls who would. Are guys any different?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would you marry for money
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
nope, Snap call would do it. get in nulled then turn that money into more $$$$$
narcissist
Master Don Juan
yes
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Would you marry for money?
I did. And I think I am the only divorced guy on here who does not regret getting married.
I did. And I think I am the only divorced guy on here who does not regret getting married.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Starfvcks 64
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I've been thinking of not even getting with a girl until she buys me something first. Seems like a good exercise in self control, and truly understanding game.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It was more like a sweet marriage deal. Her parents own a resort hotel in the Caribbean. They paid our rent for years. I qualified for student loans due to being married, at 21 I would otherwise have not. She got a green card and vastly reduced college tuition. And they flew us down to see them at Christmas.zekko said:
I was already living back in Illinois when we divorced. She paid for it. We had no kids and no joint assets. To this day she regrets divorcing me. I know, because she calls and tells me every once in a while, even though she has since converted to Islam and re-married.
There are a ton of sosuave posts extolling the virtues of foreign women. I have always said, all you have to do to meet them is to go to your nearest university. The women you meet there will almost always be from families who are wealthy, because sending your child to college in the US is not cheap, as a foreigner who does not get financial aid.
^True....out of state tuition is double itself. I cant imagine the extra living expenses with being a foreigner to boot.
That said, tbh Ive pondered it before. I just dont know if I could live a "sham" and spend so much time with a woman I was not crazy about. But then again, if a sexy girl who was well to do, flashed her lifestyle at me....even if I wasnt crazy about her, I might give it a go for a while.
I dont think I could do the marriage thing though. But Id have some fun and see what the lifestyle was all about.
That all said...times have changed, but money has always talked. Now that women have their own cash too, we see a lot of dudes doing things we thought only gals did. I wont lie and say an exciting carefree upper-class lifestyle isnt tempting if it comes from the right woman.
That said, tbh Ive pondered it before. I just dont know if I could live a "sham" and spend so much time with a woman I was not crazy about. But then again, if a sexy girl who was well to do, flashed her lifestyle at me....even if I wasnt crazy about her, I might give it a go for a while.
I dont think I could do the marriage thing though. But Id have some fun and see what the lifestyle was all about.
That all said...times have changed, but money has always talked. Now that women have their own cash too, we see a lot of dudes doing things we thought only gals did. I wont lie and say an exciting carefree upper-class lifestyle isnt tempting if it comes from the right woman.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
out of state tuition is double itself. I cant imagine the extra living expenses with being a foreigner to boot.
She went to USF in Tampa. The state of Florida gets a lot of international students, so USF had devised a special tuition rate for them, called the "International Student" rate. Out-of-state was about doubled, as you say, and then the International rate was about another 30% on top of that. The school knew those people had money, so they were gouging them all they could. She was allowed to have part-time student work if it was on-campus, but otherwise without the green card she could not work anywhere. As soon as she married me, her family started paying about 1/3rd the tuition.
When I look at an international student who is not on scholarship, I see someone whose family is rich enough to drop $20k a year or more, sometimes much more, in expendable cash for the sake of their education. That is a tremendous screening mechanism. You end up with something like what the US calls "the 1%." Except home-grown 1% girls tend to be at schools that are much more expensive and inaccessible, compared to large state universities like USF.
She went to USF in Tampa. The state of Florida gets a lot of international students, so USF had devised a special tuition rate for them, called the "International Student" rate. Out-of-state was about doubled, as you say, and then the International rate was about another 30% on top of that. The school knew those people had money, so they were gouging them all they could. She was allowed to have part-time student work if it was on-campus, but otherwise without the green card she could not work anywhere. As soon as she married me, her family started paying about 1/3rd the tuition.
When I look at an international student who is not on scholarship, I see someone whose family is rich enough to drop $20k a year or more, sometimes much more, in expendable cash for the sake of their education. That is a tremendous screening mechanism. You end up with something like what the US calls "the 1%." Except home-grown 1% girls tend to be at schools that are much more expensive and inaccessible, compared to large state universities like USF.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
my ideal situation would be to marry a rich lawyer, and just mooch off her.Of course. As a matter of fact I wouldn't even consider marrying a woman who didn't have her own money.
Lol this. The only men getting screwed over in divorce are the ones foolish enough to provide for a woman.
Knight1994
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definently not.