Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I wouldn't care. You're not her doctor. If she gets fat, ditch her and move on.
If you want someone different then date someone different. She is under no obligation to do anything to satisfy what you want for her life
Is it the fact she doesn't exercise that bothers you or the worry that she is going to get exponentially fatter later in the relationship? If it's the former because it shows she has a lack of care for herself then look elsewhere. If it is the latter, certain women can stay naturally fit without much effort at all - so it may not matter.
