"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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would you guys?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i got a friend who meets a lot of couples on craigslist and ****s the wife in front of the guy. i dont know if i could do it though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i have gotten a bj from a woman while her husband was 2 rooms over.
 
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Nygard said:
No, I'm more likely to slash her throat for being the lowest ***** ever born.

No one deserves to be KILLED for something that is cheating related.

Do you just have that attitude because you live in Columbia and you need it to survive, survival of the fittest style?
 

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If the husband isn't carrying with him a gun.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
If the husband isn't carrying with him a gun.

it would also be nice if he wasn't getting off while watching you fvck his wife - that would be a total turnoff for me, cuz for all I know, he's getting his gay azz off while looking at ME more than at her!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think the OP means that this occurs with the husband's consent. This does actually happen more than you'd think. There are couples that allow one of the partners to fvck someone else while the other one watches/films.

The answer to the question is yes, as long as it's not recorded and the wife is hot enough. You never know how a tape like that could come back to bite you in the ass later on in your life.
 

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Lexington said:
I think the OP means that this occurs with the husband's consent. This does actually happen more than you'd think. There are couples that allow one of the partners to fvck someone else while the other one watches/films.

The answer to the question is yes, as long as it's not recorded and the wife is hot enough. You never know how a tape like that could come back to bite you in the ass later on in your life.
LOL, and thats what i'm afraid of... i don't know if shes hot enough yet i'm waiting on a pic... but if she is then i'll fvck her silly i don't give a sh*t pvssy is pvssy.
 

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morepoonplease said:
LOL, and thats what i'm afraid of... i don't know if shes hot enough yet i'm waiting on a pic... but if she is then i'll fvck her silly i don't give a sh*t pvssy is pvssy.
I for one would not do it. It's sick:nono:
 
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