It's a situation where I was at school one day and this chick asked me for help after she missed class. She came after class was over and she asked me to help her do this crossword puzzle or whatever so I did. So I'm helping her but I'm being playful with her. I wasn't just giving her the answers, I made her guess and gave her clues and whatnot. She was kinda giving me those shocked eyes, you know after you say some slick shit she wasn't expecting. I guess she took it as me flirting with her and out of nowhere brought up her boyfriend. It wasn't a situation where the "conversation" led into that, she just brought the guy up. Now I had read a lot of PUA material so I knew about BF destroyers. I didn't use any of it cause in all honesty the girl wasn't that attractive. She's not ugly but she wasn't a dime by no stretch. I was thinking if that's the best the guy can do then I'm not gonna crush his happiness. I didn't like hearing about the BF cause I wasn't after her like that. But what I was thinking was, if you're gonna just assume I'm trying to hit on you and I know what I know, then why wouldn't I try such a thing on you? I left it alone tho. I'm sure you guys are no stranger to the BF destroyer despite the fact most of you don't use it. But would you try it if the girl tried to pull something like this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Would you go for it after she did this?
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