It's a situation where I was at school one day and this chick asked me for help after she missed class. She came after class was over and she asked me to help her do this crossword puzzle or whatever so I did. So I'm helping her but I'm being playful with her. I wasn't just giving her the answers, I made her guess and gave her clues and whatnot. She was kinda giving me those shocked eyes, you know after you say some slick shit she wasn't expecting. I guess she took it as me flirting with her and out of nowhere brought up her boyfriend. It wasn't a situation where the "conversation" led into that, she just brought the guy up. Now I had read a lot of PUA material so I knew about BF destroyers. I didn't use any of it cause in all honesty the girl wasn't that attractive. She's not ugly but she wasn't a dime by no stretch. I was thinking if that's the best the guy can do then I'm not gonna crush his happiness. I didn't like hearing about the BF cause I wasn't after her like that. But what I was thinking was, if you're gonna just assume I'm trying to hit on you and I know what I know, then why wouldn't I try such a thing on you? I left it alone tho. I'm sure you guys are no stranger to the BF destroyer despite the fact most of you don't use it. But would you try it if the girl tried to pull something like this?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Would you go for it after she did this?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.