It's a situation where I was at school one day and this chick asked me for help after she missed class. She came after class was over and she asked me to help her do this crossword puzzle or whatever so I did. So I'm helping her but I'm being playful with her. I wasn't just giving her the answers, I made her guess and gave her clues and whatnot. She was kinda giving me those shocked eyes, you know after you say some slick shit she wasn't expecting. I guess she took it as me flirting with her and out of nowhere brought up her boyfriend. It wasn't a situation where the "conversation" led into that, she just brought the guy up. Now I had read a lot of PUA material so I knew about BF destroyers. I didn't use any of it cause in all honesty the girl wasn't that attractive. She's not ugly but she wasn't a dime by no stretch. I was thinking if that's the best the guy can do then I'm not gonna crush his happiness. I didn't like hearing about the BF cause I wasn't after her like that. But what I was thinking was, if you're gonna just assume I'm trying to hit on you and I know what I know, then why wouldn't I try such a thing on you? I left it alone tho. I'm sure you guys are no stranger to the BF destroyer despite the fact most of you don't use it. But would you try it if the girl tried to pull something like this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would you go for it after she did this?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.