backbreaker
Master Don Juan
no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BB, being a long reader and everything of your post, but I have to ask when have you met his entourage? Seeing he is a kid from the Northeast and Harvard and your life have been largely in the middle of the state, I have doubts that you have ran into each other. But, hey, I would imagine it must have an epic story (like running into each other at the same party of something). Please tell (I say this earnestly too).backbreaker said:no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeszekko said:It wouldn't be a bad thing to have a girl from my pre-rich days to help keep me grounded.
Agreed, not every guy here is looking to build a harem, quite a lot of them are seeking help in landing just one decent woman out of the millions of *****es out there. If you just want a one-night stand then looks are all that matter but for those seeking a relationship they need to consider all aspects of the woman as a whole package.Lexington said:When you associate with the DJ/PUA community, you tend to think that every guy wants to bang lots of chicks. But a lot of guys are happy with just one decent girl. And there are other things to consider besides just looks.