backbreaker
Master Don Juan
no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BB, being a long reader and everything of your post, but I have to ask when have you met his entourage? Seeing he is a kid from the Northeast and Harvard and your life have been largely in the middle of the state, I have doubts that you have ran into each other. But, hey, I would imagine it must have an epic story (like running into each other at the same party of something). Please tell (I say this earnestly too).backbreaker said:no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yeszekko said:It wouldn't be a bad thing to have a girl from my pre-rich days to help keep me grounded.
Agreed, not every guy here is looking to build a harem, quite a lot of them are seeking help in landing just one decent woman out of the millions of *****es out there. If you just want a one-night stand then looks are all that matter but for those seeking a relationship they need to consider all aspects of the woman as a whole package.Lexington said:When you associate with the DJ/PUA community, you tend to think that every guy wants to bang lots of chicks. But a lot of guys are happy with just one decent girl. And there are other things to consider besides just looks.