backbreaker
Master Don Juan
no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BB, being a long reader and everything of your post, but I have to ask when have you met his entourage? Seeing he is a kid from the Northeast and Harvard and your life have been largely in the middle of the state, I have doubts that you have ran into each other. But, hey, I would imagine it must have an epic story (like running into each other at the same party of something). Please tell (I say this earnestly too).backbreaker said:no i've just been places where i have seen his entourage do it's thing. he gets down.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeszekko said:It wouldn't be a bad thing to have a girl from my pre-rich days to help keep me grounded.
Agreed, not every guy here is looking to build a harem, quite a lot of them are seeking help in landing just one decent woman out of the millions of *****es out there. If you just want a one-night stand then looks are all that matter but for those seeking a relationship they need to consider all aspects of the woman as a whole package.Lexington said:When you associate with the DJ/PUA community, you tend to think that every guy wants to bang lots of chicks. But a lot of guys are happy with just one decent girl. And there are other things to consider besides just looks.