Sexplicite
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Took care of you financially? Making more income than you, etc.........
Speak on it..........
Speak on it..........
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Would You Feel Lesser Of A Man If Your Woman................
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ok lots of questions from you.
Honestly, I don't know. I was recently in a situation where my gf and I are in the same field and due mainly to better connections and luck she was starting to be in a better place financially and careerwise than me.
I will admit that it bothered me a bit.
But I worked with another gf waiting tables and she did better than I on the job always making more money than I and it did not
bother me at all. I was an afc at the time though.
I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship. If you have a set structure in place where the man is the dominant figure in the relationship it may be a problem.
If the dynamic is such that both partners are equally dominant or the woman is the dominant figure in the relationship than it won't be a problem.
Honestly, I don't know. I was recently in a situation where my gf and I are in the same field and due mainly to better connections and luck she was starting to be in a better place financially and careerwise than me.
I will admit that it bothered me a bit.
But I worked with another gf waiting tables and she did better than I on the job always making more money than I and it did not
bother me at all. I was an afc at the time though.
I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship. If you have a set structure in place where the man is the dominant figure in the relationship it may be a problem.
If the dynamic is such that both partners are equally dominant or the woman is the dominant figure in the relationship than it won't be a problem.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I agree.
Fro DJ's there are always other options.
Go for no sex until you find the right one...
Fro DJ's there are always other options.
Go for no sex until you find the right one...
NewMan
Master Don Juan
No I wouldn't....
Are you kidding me...
What's the problem here? so your girl makes more moeny than you -= only someone who is insecure would have a problem with this....
Of course...
If your lady took this as a reason to disrespect you - then you should dump her a##...
Are you kidding me...
What's the problem here? so your girl makes more moeny than you -= only someone who is insecure would have a problem with this....
Of course...
If your lady took this as a reason to disrespect you - then you should dump her a##...
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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doesnt matter, as long as we both enjoy our work....
doesnt matter, as long as we both enjoy our work....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You guys talk big and tough but have you actually BEEN in that situation before.
I could have been and let me tell you, it was not my first choice. I actually would have choosen to be unemployed living with my parents versus unemployed living with my girlfriend(600 miles away).
Luckily I will be employed(without the girl though, oh well).
I could have been and let me tell you, it was not my first choice. I actually would have choosen to be unemployed living with my parents versus unemployed living with my girlfriend(600 miles away).
Luckily I will be employed(without the girl though, oh well).
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
more money = more toys = more vacations = less stress...
they all say that money can't buy us happiness, but when it comes to married couples, I can almost guarantee that a lack of money is the first thing that will be argued about..
its a new age, we are all new aged DJ....and hello...women are becoming more successful everyday...i'm not going to pedistal my gf if she makes more than me and kiss her a*s...but..i will respect her...and the more jealous her money makes me, then the less of a DJ i am...
they all say that money can't buy us happiness, but when it comes to married couples, I can almost guarantee that a lack of money is the first thing that will be argued about..
its a new age, we are all new aged DJ....and hello...women are becoming more successful everyday...i'm not going to pedistal my gf if she makes more than me and kiss her a*s...but..i will respect her...and the more jealous her money makes me, then the less of a DJ i am...
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So long as you have a respectable job (not flipping burgers) and you're going somewhere with your career I don't see a real problem here. As long as your pay is good enough that you could make it on your own I don't see the big deal if the chick makes more than you.