Sexplicite
Don Juan
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Took care of you financially? Making more income than you, etc.........
Speak on it..........
Speak on it..........
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Would You Feel Lesser Of A Man If Your Woman................
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ok lots of questions from you.
Honestly, I don't know. I was recently in a situation where my gf and I are in the same field and due mainly to better connections and luck she was starting to be in a better place financially and careerwise than me.
I will admit that it bothered me a bit.
But I worked with another gf waiting tables and she did better than I on the job always making more money than I and it did not
bother me at all. I was an afc at the time though.
I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship. If you have a set structure in place where the man is the dominant figure in the relationship it may be a problem.
If the dynamic is such that both partners are equally dominant or the woman is the dominant figure in the relationship than it won't be a problem.
Honestly, I don't know. I was recently in a situation where my gf and I are in the same field and due mainly to better connections and luck she was starting to be in a better place financially and careerwise than me.
I will admit that it bothered me a bit.
But I worked with another gf waiting tables and she did better than I on the job always making more money than I and it did not
bother me at all. I was an afc at the time though.
I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship. If you have a set structure in place where the man is the dominant figure in the relationship it may be a problem.
If the dynamic is such that both partners are equally dominant or the woman is the dominant figure in the relationship than it won't be a problem.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I agree.
Fro DJ's there are always other options.
Go for no sex until you find the right one...
Fro DJ's there are always other options.
Go for no sex until you find the right one...
NewMan
Master Don Juan
No I wouldn't....
Are you kidding me...
What's the problem here? so your girl makes more moeny than you -= only someone who is insecure would have a problem with this....
Of course...
If your lady took this as a reason to disrespect you - then you should dump her a##...
Are you kidding me...
What's the problem here? so your girl makes more moeny than you -= only someone who is insecure would have a problem with this....
Of course...
If your lady took this as a reason to disrespect you - then you should dump her a##...
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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doesnt matter, as long as we both enjoy our work....
doesnt matter, as long as we both enjoy our work....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You guys talk big and tough but have you actually BEEN in that situation before.
I could have been and let me tell you, it was not my first choice. I actually would have choosen to be unemployed living with my parents versus unemployed living with my girlfriend(600 miles away).
Luckily I will be employed(without the girl though, oh well).
I could have been and let me tell you, it was not my first choice. I actually would have choosen to be unemployed living with my parents versus unemployed living with my girlfriend(600 miles away).
Luckily I will be employed(without the girl though, oh well).
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
more money = more toys = more vacations = less stress...
they all say that money can't buy us happiness, but when it comes to married couples, I can almost guarantee that a lack of money is the first thing that will be argued about..
its a new age, we are all new aged DJ....and hello...women are becoming more successful everyday...i'm not going to pedistal my gf if she makes more than me and kiss her a*s...but..i will respect her...and the more jealous her money makes me, then the less of a DJ i am...
they all say that money can't buy us happiness, but when it comes to married couples, I can almost guarantee that a lack of money is the first thing that will be argued about..
its a new age, we are all new aged DJ....and hello...women are becoming more successful everyday...i'm not going to pedistal my gf if she makes more than me and kiss her a*s...but..i will respect her...and the more jealous her money makes me, then the less of a DJ i am...
ShortTimer
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So long as you have a respectable job (not flipping burgers) and you're going somewhere with your career I don't see a real problem here. As long as your pay is good enough that you could make it on your own I don't see the big deal if the chick makes more than you.