"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you ever try to talk to a chick in underwear sec. in the store?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sybertiger

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You would HAVE to make a joke about the uncomfortableness, crassness, etc of the situation before you even had a chance. After that, yes! You can make it a source of humor throughout the situation
 
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Well all that i was trying to say is something what if you see a hottie shopping for a thong or bra would you go up to her and talk to her.

What is so funny is that most of the time when i walk by there and some hotties are shopping some turn red or put down what there looking at :D
 
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"hey do you think that pink thong would look good on me?" :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ShizamDaMan

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Originally posted by tom121
"hey do you think that pink thong would look good on me?" :rolleyes:
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Hah, now THAT'S the way to go about it :)
 
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My opener for that situation (works pretty well most of the time) is, "You know, that one's not too bad, but if you REALLY wanna see something sexy, try this one . . . " Pick a different type, then hold it up to YOUR crotch and say, "You can see what I mean right? How the lines compliment my thighs?"

Alexi
 
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