"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would you ever try to talk to a chick in underwear sec. in the store?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sybertiger

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You would HAVE to make a joke about the uncomfortableness, crassness, etc of the situation before you even had a chance. After that, yes! You can make it a source of humor throughout the situation
 

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Well all that i was trying to say is something what if you see a hottie shopping for a thong or bra would you go up to her and talk to her.

What is so funny is that most of the time when i walk by there and some hotties are shopping some turn red or put down what there looking at :D
 

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"hey do you think that pink thong would look good on me?" :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ShizamDaMan

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Originally posted by tom121
"hey do you think that pink thong would look good on me?" :rolleyes:
Hah, now THAT'S the way to go about it :)
 

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My opener for that situation (works pretty well most of the time) is, "You know, that one's not too bad, but if you REALLY wanna see something sexy, try this one . . . " Pick a different type, then hold it up to YOUR crotch and say, "You can see what I mean right? How the lines compliment my thighs?"

Alexi
 
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