wjh
Master Don Juan
I would NEVER say anything like that.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you ever say this to a woman?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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You're thinkin with your logical mind dude, women aren't logical!wjh said:
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Don't say that canned movie sh*t. NEVER.
WaterTiger
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I'm sorry! I'd laugh in your face before you got to line 3. It sounds very canned, chick-flick, AFC and hyper-romantic. Like a creepy guy TRYING to get in a girl's pants at any cost.
Now if we'd been dating for 6 months, and you said this in front of a fire with a glass of wine....yeah, it would work.
Now if we'd been dating for 6 months, and you said this in front of a fire with a glass of wine....yeah, it would work.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
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See, I told 'ya it sounded a lot like Speed Seduction!WaterTiger said:
poonanimaker, there are easier ways to get laid. patterning is old-school, like 1980's Ross Jefferies material.
When i first got into the game, i just got laughed at or a WTF look when i ran these patterns. seriously, who talks like that...
When i first got into the game, i just got laughed at or a WTF look when i ran these patterns. seriously, who talks like that...
Rollo Tomassi
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"Wow, you're like, the most self-actualized, sensitive and attuned guy I've ever met. It's like our epic, existentialism connects on a metaphysical frequency. It must be something beyond our synergistic dynamic that's brought us into this collective togetherness."
",..so, how 'bout we connect on a more physical level now?"
"Ahhw, you're like really esoteric and all, but I'm like really hot to ƒuck Rocco over here. He rides a Harley and has tats and is all about freedom. Peace. Stay cool."
",..so, how 'bout we connect on a more physical level now?"
"Ahhw, you're like really esoteric and all, but I'm like really hot to ƒuck Rocco over here. He rides a Harley and has tats and is all about freedom. Peace. Stay cool."
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Women love poets.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.