wjh
Master Don Juan
I would NEVER say anything like that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Would you ever say this to a woman?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You're thinkin with your logical mind dude, women aren't logical!wjh said:
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Don't say that canned movie sh*t. NEVER.
WaterTiger
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I'm sorry! I'd laugh in your face before you got to line 3. It sounds very canned, chick-flick, AFC and hyper-romantic. Like a creepy guy TRYING to get in a girl's pants at any cost.
Now if we'd been dating for 6 months, and you said this in front of a fire with a glass of wine....yeah, it would work.
Now if we'd been dating for 6 months, and you said this in front of a fire with a glass of wine....yeah, it would work.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
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See, I told 'ya it sounded a lot like Speed Seduction!WaterTiger said:
poonanimaker, there are easier ways to get laid. patterning is old-school, like 1980's Ross Jefferies material.
When i first got into the game, i just got laughed at or a WTF look when i ran these patterns. seriously, who talks like that...
When i first got into the game, i just got laughed at or a WTF look when i ran these patterns. seriously, who talks like that...
Rollo Tomassi
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"Wow, you're like, the most self-actualized, sensitive and attuned guy I've ever met. It's like our epic, existentialism connects on a metaphysical frequency. It must be something beyond our synergistic dynamic that's brought us into this collective togetherness."
",..so, how 'bout we connect on a more physical level now?"
"Ahhw, you're like really esoteric and all, but I'm like really hot to ƒuck Rocco over here. He rides a Harley and has tats and is all about freedom. Peace. Stay cool."
",..so, how 'bout we connect on a more physical level now?"
"Ahhw, you're like really esoteric and all, but I'm like really hot to ƒuck Rocco over here. He rides a Harley and has tats and is all about freedom. Peace. Stay cool."
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Women love poets.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.