"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would you do it or not ?

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..........Live like a Gigolo ?
I recently slept with a a woman I met through friends (she's friends with a couple I know).
This woman has SERIOUS money.
I slept with her with the objective of just adding another plate etc.....
She's fairly attractive in the face....my super critical friend says she would be "Hot" if she lost 25 lbs
Her teeth aren't great....a huge drawback for me (I have no idea why she doesn't fix them up...she certainly can afford to )
She's really into me, and I now find myself not looking forward to her texts/calls.....
I'm trying to pinpoint it , but it's intersting how I always fantasized about living the life of a gigolo (f@8#ing for gifts and possibly cash), but now that I'm in a situation where I can enjoy expensive things for free from a wealthy woman, It just doesn't appeal to me.
Maybe it's because I make a pretty good living myself, or that I consider it unmasculine for a woman to always pay (I am 45 after all---old school), but I just can't find any charm in getting any more involved with this rich woman. I hate to say it, but I've discovered some kind of new weird respect for gold digging females......I can't see myself being a gold digging male (although my Namesake was....................)
Not trying to be a di#$ here, just looking for some different perpectives on the issue
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scars

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In all honesty, yes, I would marry an unattractive woman if she had extreme cash. But I'd make sure I could manipulate her enough to the point where I could do my own thing, or fool her enough to do it in secret.

-Scars
 
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MonkeyButt

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Not I.
I've played the role of a sugar daddy and don't like it (she called it marriage).
Personally, I can't be a hypocrite.


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yuppaz

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It all depends on the girl & how into me she is.
 
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ASK her why she doesn't fix her teeth? Take her to the gym on a hot sweaty date. MAYBE she will turn into some one you will want
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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