"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you do it or not ?

Rubirosa

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..........Live like a Gigolo ?
I recently slept with a a woman I met through friends (she's friends with a couple I know).
This woman has SERIOUS money.
I slept with her with the objective of just adding another plate etc.....
She's fairly attractive in the face....my super critical friend says she would be "Hot" if she lost 25 lbs
Her teeth aren't great....a huge drawback for me (I have no idea why she doesn't fix them up...she certainly can afford to )
She's really into me, and I now find myself not looking forward to her texts/calls.....
I'm trying to pinpoint it , but it's intersting how I always fantasized about living the life of a gigolo (f@8#ing for gifts and possibly cash), but now that I'm in a situation where I can enjoy expensive things for free from a wealthy woman, It just doesn't appeal to me.
Maybe it's because I make a pretty good living myself, or that I consider it unmasculine for a woman to always pay (I am 45 after all---old school), but I just can't find any charm in getting any more involved with this rich woman. I hate to say it, but I've discovered some kind of new weird respect for gold digging females......I can't see myself being a gold digging male (although my Namesake was....................)
Not trying to be a di#$ here, just looking for some different perpectives on the issue
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scars

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In all honesty, yes, I would marry an unattractive woman if she had extreme cash. But I'd make sure I could manipulate her enough to the point where I could do my own thing, or fool her enough to do it in secret.

-Scars
 
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MonkeyButt

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Not I.
I've played the role of a sugar daddy and don't like it (she called it marriage).
Personally, I can't be a hypocrite.


SH
 

yuppaz

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It all depends on the girl & how into me she is.
 

sodbuster

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ASK her why she doesn't fix her teeth? Take her to the gym on a hot sweaty date. MAYBE she will turn into some one you will want
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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