"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would you do it or not ?

Rubirosa

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..........Live like a Gigolo ?
I recently slept with a a woman I met through friends (she's friends with a couple I know).
This woman has SERIOUS money.
I slept with her with the objective of just adding another plate etc.....
She's fairly attractive in the face....my super critical friend says she would be "Hot" if she lost 25 lbs
Her teeth aren't great....a huge drawback for me (I have no idea why she doesn't fix them up...she certainly can afford to )
She's really into me, and I now find myself not looking forward to her texts/calls.....
I'm trying to pinpoint it , but it's intersting how I always fantasized about living the life of a gigolo (f@8#ing for gifts and possibly cash), but now that I'm in a situation where I can enjoy expensive things for free from a wealthy woman, It just doesn't appeal to me.
Maybe it's because I make a pretty good living myself, or that I consider it unmasculine for a woman to always pay (I am 45 after all---old school), but I just can't find any charm in getting any more involved with this rich woman. I hate to say it, but I've discovered some kind of new weird respect for gold digging females......I can't see myself being a gold digging male (although my Namesake was....................)
Not trying to be a di#$ here, just looking for some different perpectives on the issue
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scars

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In all honesty, yes, I would marry an unattractive woman if she had extreme cash. But I'd make sure I could manipulate her enough to the point where I could do my own thing, or fool her enough to do it in secret.

-Scars
 
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MonkeyButt

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Not I.
I've played the role of a sugar daddy and don't like it (she called it marriage).
Personally, I can't be a hypocrite.


SH
 

yuppaz

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It all depends on the girl & how into me she is.
 

sodbuster

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ASK her why she doesn't fix her teeth? Take her to the gym on a hot sweaty date. MAYBE she will turn into some one you will want
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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