"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Would you date/fvck a girl, you have no interest in?
- Thread starter ScrewIt
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rgeere
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Abbott
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The second answer makes perfect sense. There are some traits, that aren't related to looks, that may make me decide "She would NOT be a good girlfriend."
But...if sex is all you want, then is anything else going to matter apart from looks?
Some traits that I can think of that aren't looks related are:
- Ultra religious really good Christian girl (But then again, she won't fvck you anyway. They all believe in that abstinence bullsh|t.)
- Feminazi b|tch.
- Has a problem with any of the things I do.
That's just to name a few.
Not every man is a horn-dog acting on nothing but animal desires (i.e. thinking with his d|ck, not his brain), when it comes to an actual relationship.
I once said that some chick wasn't my type because she wasn't legal and I'd get in trouble. This was despite the fact that if she were a little older, she'd be someone I'd like to be with. This is an example of thinking with my brain, and not my d|ck (yes, she was HOT).
Ben
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well I believe it depends on the individual, and how he values his-self. I've had sex before were the attraction was almost non-existant. I just did it just to see if I was capable of having empty sex with a girl and being able to enjoy myself-it didn't work out...
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Agreed. I dated a woman who had two kids. For most women, one kid is an immediate turn off for me. However, this chick was one of the hottest that I've dated. Not only that, I fantasized about her when I was an AFC. I used to see her at the bus stop and never worked up the nerve to ask her out. After I came to this site, I had what it took to land her, and I found out what the inside of her pu55y felt like