"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would you date/fvck a girl, you have no interest in?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rgeere
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Abbott
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The second answer makes perfect sense. There are some traits, that aren't related to looks, that may make me decide "She would NOT be a good girlfriend."
But...if sex is all you want, then is anything else going to matter apart from looks?
Some traits that I can think of that aren't looks related are:
- Ultra religious really good Christian girl (But then again, she won't fvck you anyway. They all believe in that abstinence bullsh|t.)
- Feminazi b|tch.
- Has a problem with any of the things I do.
That's just to name a few.
Not every man is a horn-dog acting on nothing but animal desires (i.e. thinking with his d|ck, not his brain), when it comes to an actual relationship.
I once said that some chick wasn't my type because she wasn't legal and I'd get in trouble. This was despite the fact that if she were a little older, she'd be someone I'd like to be with. This is an example of thinking with my brain, and not my d|ck (yes, she was HOT).
Ben
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well I believe it depends on the individual, and how he values his-self. I've had sex before were the attraction was almost non-existant. I just did it just to see if I was capable of having empty sex with a girl and being able to enjoy myself-it didn't work out...
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Agreed. I dated a woman who had two kids. For most women, one kid is an immediate turn off for me. However, this chick was one of the hottest that I've dated. Not only that, I fantasized about her when I was an AFC. I used to see her at the bus stop and never worked up the nerve to ask her out. After I came to this site, I had what it took to land her, and I found out what the inside of her pu55y felt like