"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Would you date/fvck a girl, you have no interest in?
- Thread starter ScrewIt
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
rgeere
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Abbott
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The second answer makes perfect sense. There are some traits, that aren't related to looks, that may make me decide "She would NOT be a good girlfriend."
But...if sex is all you want, then is anything else going to matter apart from looks?
Some traits that I can think of that aren't looks related are:
- Ultra religious really good Christian girl (But then again, she won't fvck you anyway. They all believe in that abstinence bullsh|t.)
- Feminazi b|tch.
- Has a problem with any of the things I do.
That's just to name a few.
Not every man is a horn-dog acting on nothing but animal desires (i.e. thinking with his d|ck, not his brain), when it comes to an actual relationship.
I once said that some chick wasn't my type because she wasn't legal and I'd get in trouble. This was despite the fact that if she were a little older, she'd be someone I'd like to be with. This is an example of thinking with my brain, and not my d|ck (yes, she was HOT).
Ben
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well I believe it depends on the individual, and how he values his-self. I've had sex before were the attraction was almost non-existant. I just did it just to see if I was capable of having empty sex with a girl and being able to enjoy myself-it didn't work out...
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Agreed. I dated a woman who had two kids. For most women, one kid is an immediate turn off for me. However, this chick was one of the hottest that I've dated. Not only that, I fantasized about her when I was an AFC. I used to see her at the bus stop and never worked up the nerve to ask her out. After I came to this site, I had what it took to land her, and I found out what the inside of her pu55y felt like