"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you date an only fans model escort or exotic dancer?

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In my case i'll probably go with an accent on a dancer i've been there what about you guys what situation have you been in?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I used to work at a strip club and hung with a few but learned quickly that even if it was FWB strippers are more trouble than they're worth. They're mackish females in the business of squeezing men for everything and that trait doesn't stop when they get off work.
If you want a challenge to keep your skills up they're the perfect tests, otherwise hit & quit ASAP.
 
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No dont do it. These girls are usually a mess. You will also find a higher rate of personality disorders in that cohort. Think about how insane you have to be to do that line of work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The majority of girls on OF as I understand it are not that great looking. Why? because the user base is populated by average women with an inaccurate self image. I'd assume only the upper echelon of OF are the stunners. When I bartended only fans just started blowing up and several of my servers would talk about doing it and some 'getting ready' for when they turn 18. Most of these women were straight up unattractive or 6's at best.

Don't think I could date/plate em unless they were a solid 10/10 in my eyes, but even then I wouldn't take them seriously.

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I echo the sentiments in this thread. These women are recreational use only.
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Yup
 
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Dated a Stripper. She was awesome.. I still respect and appreciate her even tho we're no longer in contact. Never did me wrong by any means.

Only Fans "model" doesn't exist.. Just women who do onlyfans lol. IT can be anyone. the word model doesnt belong. and yeah idc if she has an onlyfans, im not wifing her anyways.. just smashing until its boring and dashing
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've dated 3 strippers. Had a blast. Lots of fun times and hot sex. None of them used me.

Not any worse than some random girl I met online or at a bar.

The worst part about it was their schedules.
 
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Dated a girl who did porn, but wasn't hardcore stuff.. mostly light fetish kinda thing.

Anyway most girls that get into this kinda game are damaged, most with childhood trauma.

Smash yes... But definitely not LTR material.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Howiestern said:
I've dated 3 strippers. Had a blast. Lots of fun times and hot sex. None of them used me.

Not any worse than some random girl I met online or at a bar.

The worst part about it was their schedules.
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Most white collar office workers would have a difficult time making things work with a stripper in terms of schedule. The lifestyles are way too different because the working hours are too different.

Strippers and bouncers tend to get together a lot due to similar schedules.
 
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SW15 said:
Most white collar office workers would have a difficult time making things work with a stripper in terms of schedule. The lifestyles are way too different because the working hours are too different.

Strippers and bouncers tend to get together a lot due to similar schedules.
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Yep that was me. Went to work on Monday on 4hrs of sleep many times.

There was times I'd be getting home from partying with friends and ready to go to bed, and $tripper would be getting off work wanting to have a good time. There is stripper time and everybody else's time.
 
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Howiestern said:
Yep that was me. Went to work on Monday on 4hrs of sleep many times.

There was times I'd be getting home from partying with friends and ready to go to bed, and $tripper would be getting off work wanting to have a good time. There is stripper time and everybody else's time.
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Stripper time is super crazy. I'm impressed you were able to do that and keep an Engineering job.
 
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