ilikecharlene
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Say you disliked children (I'm not fond of them), would you consider it?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Would you date a woman with children?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don't waste your precious time. Unless you are a single father, it's a horribly unbalanced situation that's monumentally unfair to the man. Consider the ex forever lurking about, tons of other MILFvckers who got her in their cellphone directories, etc.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It's only ok if she beats the kids. That keeps them in line, and you're not allowed to beat them, so she has to do it. Otherwise, the kids are brats who ruin both of your lives.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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perseverance
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I like children, I adore my 1 year old Nephew to pieces, but that said I wouldn't date a woman with children. As much as I like children, I don't want any of my own and I sure as hell don't want to care and look after anyone else's.
First off, take the advice of others and leave it alone. It's a hassle and you will be (and should be) second or third or last on her priorities. Since I have two kids myself, I find that dating women with kids automatically gives us something in common.
That being said, I dated two women recently with kids. The first had two baby-daddies and two sons, ages 8 and 9. They were misbehaved, squirrely little punks and I couldn't stand being around them for the little time I had to. She's totally out of the picture now.
The second had two teen daughters and the father was out of the picture. Having teens myself I knew she was doing a good job raising these kids and we had lots of common ground. In the end, I stopped seeing her because I wanted fun and adventure and she wanted a husband.
That being said, I dated two women recently with kids. The first had two baby-daddies and two sons, ages 8 and 9. They were misbehaved, squirrely little punks and I couldn't stand being around them for the little time I had to. She's totally out of the picture now.
The second had two teen daughters and the father was out of the picture. Having teens myself I knew she was doing a good job raising these kids and we had lots of common ground. In the end, I stopped seeing her because I wanted fun and adventure and she wanted a husband.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Not anymore. Did that, from chicks with newborns to chicks with 5 kids. There's a imbalance in freedom/free time and discretionary spending/funds. I wanted to go out and do sh!t, she would always have to find a sitter, not to mention the money to pay for a sitter. She was broke most the time and got less hot as time passed
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
I'm dating a girl with a child now! When she said she had a kid that threw me off big time because I was really feeling the chick. Worst part is I know the baby daddy. Even though he is way older then me we are in both the same fraternity at the same school (he pledged before me). I'm beating up my own frat members (K.O.'d 3) and now I'm dating their baby mommas. Whats the world coming too??
You can't help who you like though. I'm only dating 2 chicks (fine women that I'm really feeling the vibe with), but I'm talking/smashing 8 more chicks (cute girls that I refuse to take these girls out unless they pay). But I'll make sure I won't get too serious with this one. She'll just have the special place in the heart.
You can't help who you like though. I'm only dating 2 chicks (fine women that I'm really feeling the vibe with), but I'm talking/smashing 8 more chicks (cute girls that I refuse to take these girls out unless they pay). But I'll make sure I won't get too serious with this one. She'll just have the special place in the heart.
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
Man, you're full of good wisdom. The only reason I keep coming back to this forums is to read your postsBible_Belt said:
Btw, my dad used to beat me up when I was a kid. But now, looking back at it, I deserved all of it. It made me a better person and it built my character.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
SgtSplacker
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I think Belt nailed this one. Nothing makes a kid more jealous than his mom showing someone else interest in front of them. It's always going to be a financial liability one way or another. Maybe mom will pay for the kids things but now mom doesn't have much money for herself. No matter what you end up paying for those kids who prolly hate your guts.Bible_Belt said:
Dating a girl with a kid is the exact definition of "chump". If you are ok being a chump, then go nuts.
No matter what the girl is like that you are dating, she is always thinking of how to get you to pay for her kids in the back of her mind. If she wasn't, she wouldn't be dating. Women who can actually pay for their kids because they have a nice career do not date.
No matter what the girl is like that you are dating, she is always thinking of how to get you to pay for her kids in the back of her mind. If she wasn't, she wouldn't be dating. Women who can actually pay for their kids because they have a nice career do not date.