"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you date a Woman who smokes?

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Freeman

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I ask this question because it is becoming apparent to me that many guys HATE woman who smoke-Even though a lot of the guys smoke themselves. Should there be a double standard to this? ME personally I don't have a problem with it-as long as doesn't get crazy with it!

What are your guys thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nope.

Don't like kissing an ashtray. Don't like the "I'll just step outside for a smoke" moments. Don't like the $$ that keeps leaking out of the pocket to buy them.

IMO, there's no upside to smoking. Not one. Been there, done that.
 
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Social smoking is fine - hell, I've been known to down entire packs without realizing it on Saturday Nights with friends. As long as she can keep it in check and not let it run her life I'm cool with it, but I really don't dig girls who need to smoke - it just comes off as annoying, especially when you're watching a movie or eating out somewhere...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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