"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you date a Woman who smokes?

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I ask this question because it is becoming apparent to me that many guys HATE woman who smoke-Even though a lot of the guys smoke themselves. Should there be a double standard to this? ME personally I don't have a problem with it-as long as doesn't get crazy with it!

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nope.

Don't like kissing an ashtray. Don't like the "I'll just step outside for a smoke" moments. Don't like the $$ that keeps leaking out of the pocket to buy them.

IMO, there's no upside to smoking. Not one. Been there, done that.
 
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Social smoking is fine - hell, I've been known to down entire packs without realizing it on Saturday Nights with friends. As long as she can keep it in check and not let it run her life I'm cool with it, but I really don't dig girls who need to smoke - it just comes off as annoying, especially when you're watching a movie or eating out somewhere...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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