"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would You Consider This Disrespectful??

soulforge

soulforge

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Guys i take on board everything you are saying.. i need to stop giving a fuk at all.. she is just meat..

But my main question still remains?

Do you think it was disrespecful of her to cancel meeting me, because i called her mate? And now she is hoping i will meet her when she gets back from her holiday on friday??

She claims we are only friends.. but calling her mate, obviously touched a raw nerve!

So she cancled.. so would you feel disrespected in this situation, and would you agree to meet up again?

I kinda feel like telling her to fuk off..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lozboss

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Soul,

you know my thoughts- dump her. Never look back- she is dead to you. As hard as that is.

It was disrespectful but she's always been like that with you- you know that. THAT is why you dumped her at the end of round 1.

You don't reward a dog for bad behaviour- the same with women (not saying women are dogs here).
 
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