"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would You Consider This Disrespectful??

soulforge

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Guys i take on board everything you are saying.. i need to stop giving a fuk at all.. she is just meat..

But my main question still remains?

Do you think it was disrespecful of her to cancel meeting me, because i called her mate? And now she is hoping i will meet her when she gets back from her holiday on friday??

She claims we are only friends.. but calling her mate, obviously touched a raw nerve!

So she cancled.. so would you feel disrespected in this situation, and would you agree to meet up again?

I kinda feel like telling her to fuk off..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lozboss

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Soul,

you know my thoughts- dump her. Never look back- she is dead to you. As hard as that is.

It was disrespectful but she's always been like that with you- you know that. THAT is why you dumped her at the end of round 1.

You don't reward a dog for bad behaviour- the same with women (not saying women are dogs here).
 
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