"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would You Consider This Disrespectful??

soulforge

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Guys i take on board everything you are saying.. i need to stop giving a fuk at all.. she is just meat..

But my main question still remains?

Do you think it was disrespecful of her to cancel meeting me, because i called her mate? And now she is hoping i will meet her when she gets back from her holiday on friday??

She claims we are only friends.. but calling her mate, obviously touched a raw nerve!

So she cancled.. so would you feel disrespected in this situation, and would you agree to meet up again?

I kinda feel like telling her to fuk off..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lozboss

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Soul,

you know my thoughts- dump her. Never look back- she is dead to you. As hard as that is.

It was disrespectful but she's always been like that with you- you know that. THAT is why you dumped her at the end of round 1.

You don't reward a dog for bad behaviour- the same with women (not saying women are dogs here).
 
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