Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I've been out with a girl once this year and we've known eachother for more than 5 years. would it be a good idea to take her to my buildings pool or take it back to a dinner table?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would you consider a pool date?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mike32ct
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I agree with J. Roc that you are very likely in friendzone due to the amount of time you've known her and having only had one date.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.