Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I've been out with a girl once this year and we've known eachother for more than 5 years. would it be a good idea to take her to my buildings pool or take it back to a dinner table?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you consider a pool date?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mike32ct
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I agree with J. Roc that you are very likely in friendzone due to the amount of time you've known her and having only had one date.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.