Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
I've been out with a girl once this year and we've known eachother for more than 5 years. would it be a good idea to take her to my buildings pool or take it back to a dinner table?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Would you consider a pool date?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mike32ct
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I agree with J. Roc that you are very likely in friendzone due to the amount of time you've known her and having only had one date.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.
But if you want to try anyway, I would ONLY go to the pool if you have the body to pull it off. How do you look without a shirt on? You don't have to answer that here. It's just something to think about.
Otherwise, dinner is ok as long as you can sell the idea that you're a great cool who knows how to make a great xyz dish.