"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would You Ask Out A Girl In A 'Complicated' Relationship?

To Pursue or Not To Pursue: That is the Question.

  • Do it! He who hesitates, masturbates.

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • Wait! Play it smart before you play with your heart.

    Votes: 3 23.1%

  • Look for another girl! This one will throw you into a whirl.

    Votes: 7 53.8%
  • Total voters
    13
  • Poll closed .
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Juan_Man

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A part of me is highly motivated to do so, but another part of me thinks that there is a greater chance of her saying "yes" if she's officially single. Then another part of me thinks that another guy is probably what is making her relationship complicated. What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's too much drama. She most likely wont leave her boyfriend for you. If she does, she will still be emotionally attached to him..
 
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she's probably pretty lame if she's even in a "complicated" relationship. But if she goes out with you at all, either she'll end up playing you, or she'll turn out to be a hor. There is no logical way around those two alernatives.

1. Wasting your time
or
2. Hor

Kinda makes the decision obvious.
 
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What do you mean by 'ask her out?'

If you mean go on dates with roses while trading secrets and the park and swapping fleeting glances across the classroom then.......no

If you mean invite her over to 'watch a movie' that ends with you fukking her three ways from Sunday before the fifth scene.......then by all means.

Believe me.....there's nothing complicated about this situation. One likes the other and the other is toying around. It's that simple.
 
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Believe me.....there's nothing complicated about this situation. One likes the other and the other is toying around. It's that simple.
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That's a good point. But your hypothetical "movie" scenario also confirms what I said.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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