"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would You Ask Out A Girl In A 'Complicated' Relationship?

To Pursue or Not To Pursue: That is the Question.

  • Do it! He who hesitates, masturbates.

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • Wait! Play it smart before you play with your heart.

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • Look for another girl! This one will throw you into a whirl.

    Votes: 7 53.8%

  • Total voters
    13
  • Poll closed .

Juan_Man

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A part of me is highly motivated to do so, but another part of me thinks that there is a greater chance of her saying "yes" if she's officially single. Then another part of me thinks that another guy is probably what is making her relationship complicated. What do you think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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It's too much drama. She most likely wont leave her boyfriend for you. If she does, she will still be emotionally attached to him..
 

Obsidian

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she's probably pretty lame if she's even in a "complicated" relationship. But if she goes out with you at all, either she'll end up playing you, or she'll turn out to be a hor. There is no logical way around those two alernatives.

1. Wasting your time
or
2. Hor

Kinda makes the decision obvious.
 

Rex Man

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What do you mean by 'ask her out?'

If you mean go on dates with roses while trading secrets and the park and swapping fleeting glances across the classroom then.......no

If you mean invite her over to 'watch a movie' that ends with you fukking her three ways from Sunday before the fifth scene.......then by all means.

Believe me.....there's nothing complicated about this situation. One likes the other and the other is toying around. It's that simple.
 

Obsidian

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Believe me.....there's nothing complicated about this situation. One likes the other and the other is toying around. It's that simple.
That's a good point. But your hypothetical "movie" scenario also confirms what I said.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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