"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would you accept this apology?
- Thread starter styleman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jophil28
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Two dealbreakers there, "angry AND irate "styleman said:
What are you doing with a woman like that for F's sake "
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Or, you're incredibly smart and can completely analyze the OP's girlfriend's (?) personality by her apology and two words describing her bad moods.
Stop giving advice.
Anyways, if she is constantly complaining to you, and you don't get a moment with her where she is actually tolerable and happy... don't accept it, but warn her. If she's actually tolerable and happy, and occasionally comes to you to talk about her occasional problems, sure accept her apology.
But remember, a girl with emotional problems will just be a problem.
If you don't enjoy her company, find someone that is enjoyable.
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Oookkkk. I think the OP specifically posted asking for advice, yes he was vague, but even discussing his vagueness helps him reason through it.Michele said:
But here's the real clincher:
The f*** is this... ADVICE?
Lets hear it one more time:
Awesome.